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DON'T HATE SEX

I have experienced couples sit in front of me during counseling, literally displaying their hatred for sex. God created sex for humanity and God do not have any war or problem with sex. Sex is not your enemy because God created sex for you.

SEX IS NOT A SIN. HAVING SEX OUTSIDE THE TIME FRAME GOD ORDAINED FOR IT IS SIN. MEANING, SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE IS A SIN. It is not a sin because it is sex. It is a sin because IT WAS PRACTICED AT THE WRONG TIMING. STOP HATING SEX.

The real enemy is the lust. Lust is the indiscipline of your desire, and thought pattern. Lust is the mother of enticement. Enticement is the mother of greed, and inconsiderate of God's Instructions. Getting married will not cure you from lust. Daily sex in marriage will not cure lust. The Word of God and your Faith in Jesus is what delivers you from Lust.

Married couples, sex is not an obstacle to your spiritual life. Sex will not reduce your Anointing. Sex will not kill your prayer life. Sex in marriage is part of your worship to God. I need you to understand that God is interested in how you satisfy or neglect the emotional, and sexual need of your spouse. Be sensitive to the sexual and emotional need of your spouse, so your prayers will not be hindered. This is as serious as the previous statement. 

Ministers of God, teaching the youths and teenagers to hate sex will not make them live pure. Inserting fear into them about sex will not make them live pure. Whatsoever you use to make people to obey God outside the Faith in Christ is a sin in itself. May the Lord give you more understanding in Jesus Name. 

Prince Victor Matthew 

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