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Unique You and the Power of Honour

Beloved of God, there is a uniqueness in you that heaven celebrates. You are gifted, graced, and intentionally crafted by God, and you never need to pull someone down to feel special. Your value is not measured by comparison. Your identity is not strengthened by competition. Honouring others is a sign that you have good self esteem, because it proves you are secure in who God made you to be. Scripture reminds us, “I will praise You for I am fearfully and wonderfully made” Psalm 139 verse 14. When you embrace this truth, you stop seeing people as threats and start seeing them as fellow carriers of God’s beauty. Beloved, honour flows from a healthy heart. When you celebrate others, you reveal how deeply you understand your own worth. Insecurity breeds jealousy, but confidence produces honour. You were not created to compete for relevance. You were created to complete God’s picture in the earth. No one can replace your assignment. No one can duplicate your grace. When you honour what othe...
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Grace in Weakness

It’s easy to feel unworthy when your weaknesses are loud. But God doesn’t see weakness as disqualification—He sees it as a doorway for grace. 2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” You don’t have to hide your flaws for God to use you; He works through them. When you understand that His strength rests in your frailty, shame loses its grip. You become more confident not because you have it all together, but because He does. Discovering the unique you means accepting the full picture—your strengths, your struggles, and your story. Your imperfection doesn’t cancel your identity; it reveals your dependence on grace. Every time you allow God to fill the broken spaces, you shine a little brighter. That’s what makes your life authentic and impactful. So stop disqualifying yourself based on where you fall short. You were never called to impress—only to express the grace of the One who chose you. Self-esteem rooted in grace produces p...
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Chosen and Accepted

There is a peace that comes when you stop striving to be accepted and start resting in the truth that you already are. Ephesians 1:4–6 says, “He chose us in Him before the creation of the world… and made us accepted in the Beloved.” Before you ever performed or proved yourself, God chose you. His acceptance cancels rejection. When you don’t understand divine acceptance, you chase human approval. But people’s opinions are unstable; God’s acceptance is eternal. You don’t have to earn what grace has already given. Functioning in your uniqueness begins when you stop trying to be enough for others and start embracing that you’re already enough in Christ. Acceptance brings freedom. Freedom to speak, create, love, and serve without fear of being misjudged. When you realize you are chosen, you no longer live trying to fit in—you start standing out in purpose. That is how identity becomes strength. The Father’s love is not a reaction; it’s a decision. You were loved before you failed, before yo...
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God in You

You are more than your name, background, or mistakes—you are a vessel of divine presence. 1 Corinthians 3:16 says, “Do you not know that you are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in you?” That truth alone should reshape how you see yourself. You are not ordinary because an extraordinary God lives in you. When God lives in a person, He fills them with potential and grace to manifest His purpose. The Spirit within you is your greatest advantage. You don’t need to become someone else to carry power—you already carry heaven inside you. Discovering the “unique you” begins with honoring the divine presence within. Too often, people downplay their gifts because they feel unworthy. But worthiness is not about perfection—it’s about possession. If God owns you, He empowers you. If His Spirit is within you, you are never empty. You were designed to function from within, not from imitation. Walk with the awareness that God is not just around you but inside you. Let that truth influence how...
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Value in Christ

So many people lose themselves in comparison. They scroll, they watch, they measure—and somewhere along the way, they forget who they are. Galatians 6:4 reminds us, “Let each one test his own work… and not in his neighbor.” Your value is not in your likeness to others but in your connection to Christ. He defines your worth long before you perform or succeed. When you live from comparison, you’ll either feel inferior or superior, and both are traps. But when you live from identity, you stand secure. You were not created to compete; you were created to contribute. The world doesn’t need another version of someone else—it needs the authentic you that God designed. Self-esteem deepens when you accept that your uniqueness is a divine investment, not a mistake. You are a specific answer to a specific need in the world. Don’t downgrade your value to fit a system of trends that will change tomorrow. Stay rooted in who Christ says you are today. To function fully in the “you” God made, you must...
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Wonderfully Made

You are not an accident or a random thought. God took His time in creating you, shaping every detail of your life with purpose. Psalm 139:14 says, “I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful.” Until you begin to see yourself through God’s design, you will keep trying to become what others want you to be. The world may define worth by appearance or achievement, but heaven defines worth by purpose. Every time you try to copy another person, you silence the beauty of who God made you to be. The strength of your identity lies in the uniqueness God gave you. You were not created to blend in but to reflect a part of God that no one else carries. Confidence grows when you stop competing and start appreciating. Your design reveals your assignment. The way you think, feel, and create all point to what God placed you on earth to do. What seems strange about you might be what God will use to set you apart. Stop asking, “Why am I different?” and start asking...
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GROWTH IN RELATIONSHIP

Every growth is not meant for you. You can grow out of your life assignment or grow within your life assignment. These are the two-destination relationship can lead you but it is your duty to be intentional. No relationship leaves you the same way it met you. It will either advance you in the direction of your life or it will advance you out of the direction of your life assignment. Growth is needed in every relationship because God wired it that way. Nothing is designed to be stagnant in life. Every relationship is supposed to daily advance you in the direction of your life assignment. But it is up to you to choose how you allow the relationship to dictate the kind of growth that you allow.  The kind of person that can dictate the direction of the growth in their lives are individuals who have discovered life assignment in Christ. If the Word of God is not residing in your heart, and dictating your life, you won’t be able to operate in this system.  If the Word of God is not ...
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SUPPORT IN RELATIONSHIP

SUPPORT IN RELATIONSHIP  Relationship is designed to provide support to you, and you supporting others. If the support is not mutual, confront it, and talk about it. If it is not resolved then it is a relationship that is not needed by you. There is a kind of support that you can get from the Word of God alone, there is a kind of support you must use the support of God to generate for yourself, and there are support other people must use their life assignment to render to you. The only tool you have to use in supporting any one is the life assignment God have committed into your hands. Support is needed to reduce stress, and pressure in the life of those in the relationship. If this person having relationship with you is adding more stress, and pressure to you, you need to think twice about that relationship. Do not fall into the temptation of adding stress and pressure to people’s life. Your relationship with this person should offer this person a relief from stress and pressure. ...
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Date Your Kind

Self-discovery is what will dictate the kind of people that you should have in relationship. You cannot afford to have relationship with whosoever you like at your own will. Pay attention to the dealings of God with you and understand the kind of person God have wired you to become. In That understanding is what sets the pace of the kind of people you should engage with in relationship. “Relate with your kind and stay around your kind.” A healthy relationship is for two people who have common ground in the place of life assignment. Common ground is when two people have common interest in every aspect of life. This is the beauty of attraction that brings people together through their common interest. Relationship is not an aimless journey with no direction in life. It is an intentional decision, and journey with a specific defined direction in life. This direction is a reality that must aligns with the common ground between these two persons in terms of their individual life assignment....
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YOUR DIVINE CALLING

Divine Calling is a lifestyle, and a thinking pattern of servanthood. It is the journey of God setting you apart for a specific plan concerning a specific assignment. It a Divine appointment, and you being choosen by God to produce a specific kind of solution in this generation. It is the free will of God behind why He formed you into your mother's womb and the specific result He intend to achieve with your life.  Divine Calling is not about Church System alone; it is the lifestyle of every believer in Christ. Its impossible for you to give your life to Jesus if you are Divine called by God. No body can accept Jesus unless the Father CALL such person unto Himself. Divine Calling doesn't mean you must start a Church or Ministry, it simply means God have wired you to generate a specific kind of result according to the passion He has installed in you.  Divine Calling is the foundation of God's plan that dictates every aspect of your journey in life. Your Divine calling is what...
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WEEKLY DECLARATION

Romans 12:2 I decree and declare that I will not be manipulated in Jesus Name. I decree and declare that my voice of impact will not be silent in Jesus Name. I decree and declare that my divine assignment will not be buried in Jesus Name. I decree and declare that I am daily aligning to God's ordained decisions in Jesus Name. I decree and declare that I am daily aligning to the God kind of ideas and thinking pattern in Jesus Name. I decree and declare that I am daily aligning to the plans of God concerning my life in Jesus Name. I decree and declare that I refuse to be confused. I know what God needs me to do at any given point in Jesus Name.  I decree and declare that I refuse to become an obstacle to God's operation in my life in Jesus Name. I decree and declare the wisdom of Christ upon my life in Jesus Name. I decree and declare the peace of God over my life, my heart, my mind and everything or anyone related to me or connect to me in Jesus Name.  Prince Victor Matthew...
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GIVING IN HUMAN RELATIONSHIP

Giving is about honour or respect. It is a necessity of life and not a show off. It is the attitude of any kind of friendship, relationship, marriage or any form of association. The least form of giving is MONEY. The first thing to give in any kind of relationship is HONOUR AND RESPECT. Honour is the ability to treat and talk to some one with regard. To respect is to value the personality, and virtue within this person.  The second thing to give in any kind of relationship is ATTENTION. Paying attention to this person. Pay attention for conversation on common interest in life. Pay attention to know and understand this person. Pay attention to know where you can be useful to this person. Pay attention to know how this person can be a blessing to you. Pay attention to the strength, weakness, struggles, pain, fears, worries and doubts of this person. The third thing to give in any relationship is your TIME. Any relationship you are too busy to participate in is of no importance to you...
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DON'T HATE SEX

I have experienced couples sit in front of me during counseling, literally displaying their hatred for sex. God created sex for humanity and God do not have any war or problem with sex. Sex is not your enemy because God created sex for you. SEX IS NOT A SIN. HAVING SEX OUTSIDE THE TIME FRAME GOD ORDAINED FOR IT IS SIN. MEANING, SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE IS A SIN. It is not a sin because it is sex. It is a sin because IT WAS PRACTICED AT THE WRONG TIMING. STOP HATING SEX. The real enemy is the lust. Lust is the indiscipline of your desire, and thought pattern. Lust is the mother of enticement. Enticement is the mother of greed, and inconsiderate of God's Instructions. Getting married will not cure you from lust. Daily sex in marriage will not cure lust. The Word of God and your Faith in Jesus is what delivers you from Lust. Married couples, sex is not an obstacle to your spiritual life. Sex will not reduce your Anointing. Sex will not kill your prayer life. Sex in marriage is part of you...
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WHAT DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE?

It is time for you to question you behaviour and approach in the journey of your Faith in Christ Jesus. We have grown in the knowledge of God to some hieghts but let's question everything we have learnt in Church and from our mentor or trusted role model. It is an error to believe in prayers. There is no place in the Bible or in Jesus statement that insist we must believe in Prayers. The scripture and Jesus taught us the importance of prayer. Any body can pray and even other religions pray. So prayer is not the great deal. Prayers becomes a mere active or spoke words IF JESUS IS NOT THE CENTER OF ATTENTION. Believe in Jesus and Pray IN HIS NAME. It is an error to believe in fasting. Fasting becomes an hungry strike when you do it believing in it. I know what you are reading sound abnormal to you. Your only assignment in the kingdom of God IS TO BELIEVE IN JESUS. Any other religion fast so fasting is not the great deal. Your believe in Jesus is what empower your fasting to generate ...
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WEEKLY PRAYERS

NEW CONVERT/BELIEVER Romans 12:2 Father, I want to thank you for the gift of Salvation. Thank you for adopting me into your family. I ask for your forgiveness in anyway I am breaking the principle of your kingdom. Today, I declare that I am aligning daily to your instructions for my life. In the Name of Jesus, I receive clarity about my new identity in Christ. I speak to every members of my body to begin to understand the dimensions of your loving kindness. I loose every sense of fear, guilt and shame about every of my past mistakes and fault. Today, Jesus is glorified in my life in Jesus Name.  AUTHORITY   MATTHEW 18:18 Father, I want to appreciate for your wonderful promises concerning my life. I decress and declare, every power and influence surrounding me that is not from Christ, I arrest your powers and cast you to the bottomless pit. In the Name of Jesus, I decree and declare that I will no longer be a victim of my own ignorance. I receive the right knowledge now in...
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ATTRACTION

Attraction is not love. It is a natural emotional reacting within every human, that alart you of the sight and sound of what appeal to your interest. It is a natural influence in life. It is the power that brings your attention to people of your kind. It draws your attention to people of common interest, and pursuit in life. God inputted this system in us to help us recognize those we need and those we don't need. We have physical attraction. This is you hearing or seeing something about some one that appeal your physical interest. We have intellectual attraction. This is you hearing and seeing something about some one, that appeal to your intellectual interest. We have sexual attraction. This is when the appearance and words of some one appeal your sexual interest. Interest is key in the affairs of Attraction. Every kind of interest is the fruit from lack of self discovery, or the fruit from the knowledge of self discovery. If you have not discovered who you are in Christ, and how...
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MARRIAGE AND MINISTRY

Marriage is not a distraction to your ministry. It is a support system to your ministry. The benefits in marriage helps you to be emotionally and sexually balance to excell in ministry. This is the reason why you must marry some one who is interested in your calling. He or she must be some one whose calling compliment your calling and your calling compliment his or her calling too. Dont abandon your ministry due to the pursuit of marriage. Marriage was ordained by God to serve the need of the Ministry. This puts you in a dual responsibility; a minister and a spouse. You must understand the time and season to step into each of these offices. Your spouse needs the minister in you and also the spouse in you as necessity demands. Ignore your spouse and considering ministering to other people as a priority than to your spouse is an error. Your spouse must be the first partaker of the Anointing and Wisdom in your life. This is the reason why you must marry some one that believe in your calli...
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DEAR BELIEVERS

PROPHETIC MINISTRY Prophetic Ministry is the ministration of the God's Word and the Holy Spirit. It is a realm of God's operation that is mean for all believers in Christ Jesus. It is set up by God giving clarity, instructions and direction into His will and operation. If you are not Born Again, you won't be able to enjoy the benefits of the prophetic Ministry.  In God's Government or Kingdom, all believers in Christ Jesus are ordained to hear God's voice, to be able to recognize and respond to the voice of God. In this kingdom, every believer in Christ have the equal access into vision and prophecy, revealing and enforcing the interest of the Father. If you have access to the Word of God and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit within you, you already have access into the Prophetic Ministry.  Prince Victor Matthew  TEACHING MINISTRY Teaching Ministry is not a show off of scriptural knowledge. It is the ability to lead people from their ignorance about God's plan a...
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WEEKLY PRAYERS

NEW CONVERT/BELIEVER Romans 12:2 Father, I want to thank you for the gift of Salvation. Thank you for adopting me into your family. I ask for your forgiveness in anyway I am breaking the principle of your kingdom. Today, I declare that I am aligning daily to your instructions for my life. In the Name of Jesus, I receive clarity about my new identity in Christ. I speak to every members of my body to begin to understand the dimensions of your loving kindness. I loose every sense of fear, guilt and shame about every of my past mistakes and fault. Today, Jesus is glorified in my life in Jesus Name.  HEALING Matthew 11:28 Father, I want to thank you for the provision of healing in the finished work of Christ on the cross. I ask for the forgiveness of any of your instructions I have disobeyed, knowingly or unknowingly. I stand in the Righteousness of Christ and I rebuke every spirit of sickness in any members of my body. I command every organ in my body to adjust to their normal function...
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DATING

Can we date, is different from will you marry me? Dating is an understudy of a male and female who have individually willingly accept to undergo a season of studying each other. Its a studying of individual identity, values, priority and needs according to the uniqueness of each others dream. This is the games of dreams and who align best to your dream. It is not a helpless feeling or a do or die affair. It's a willful choice and decision of a man and woman equally. Dating is an invitation of self evaluation a man present to a lady. It is simply a request and not a war or a case of a man or lady begging or pleading for dating the opposite gender. It is the transaction of respect and attention on a willful ground.  This is no formula for dating because the approach for dating a man is not applicable to how you will date another man. The approach of dating a lady is not applicable to how you will date another lady. Individual differences is the rthym of dating. Without the knowledge ...
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