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DATING

Can we date, is different from will you marry me? Dating is an understudy of a male and female who have individually willingly accept to undergo a season of studying each other. Its a studying of individual identity, values, priority and needs according to the uniqueness of each others dream. This is the games of dreams and who align best to your dream.

It is not a helpless feeling or a do or die affair. It's a willful choice and decision of a man and woman equally. Dating is an invitation of self evaluation a man present to a lady. It is simply a request and not a war or a case of a man or lady begging or pleading for dating the opposite gender. It is the transaction of respect and attention on a willful ground. 

This is no formula for dating because the approach for dating a man is not applicable to how you will date another man. The approach of dating a lady is not applicable to how you will date another lady. Individual differences is the rthym of dating.

Without the knowledge of your Divine calling, you won't know who you can date or avoid. It's possible to be attracted to some one that won't be useful to your dream. For dating is the transaction of dreams. It is for the sustainability and constant improvement in each others dream.

Alignment to individual dreams in dating is the stepping stone to the decision of courtship. Make no mistakes, no dreams - no relationship. Don't date a lady or man whose Divine calling is still a mystery. If you must date, date with understanding and date according to the nature of your dreams or Divine Calling.

Prince Victor Matthew

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